Sexual Positions to Impress Your Man
The discovery of the Kama Sutra by the western world has revolutionized our positions; our sexual positions. To bring spice into your relationship you can use different sexual positions to impress your man. In fact, people in general are becoming more and more colorful with sex. Vanilla sex such as missionary style is so passé. But does changing sexual positions to impress your man actually make a difference in the overall sexual experience? Does it really impress him at all?
Jay and I have tried and tested a variety of positions and contortions and have put the Kama sutra in the shade. I’ve certainly instigated a lot of different ways to impress my man. Some positions undoubtedly add to the physical pleasure, others have enhanced the level of intimacy between us, while others were mere adventures, experiments on the possibilities and limits to the human body and the imagination.
Physical or Intimacy?
Jay and I differ slightly in our approach. While I usually go for intimacy, Jay goes straight for pleasure. Now don’t get me wrong, nothing is more mind blowing and intimate for me than seeing my partner in the throws of ecstasy, especially knowing that I’m the cause. But I still love a good long cuddle any day. In fact, science proves that through the release of oxytocin, a hormone generated in the brain, cuddling and other forms of intimacy, lead to the development of loving and lifelong bonds between two partners. But while cuddling is a luxury for some, sex, like eating, breathing and sleeping, is a necessity for the majority of us.
Is it Just Wishful Thinking?
But why is experimenting with different sexual positions so important to modern society? Well, it has a lot to do with our main sexual organ – the brain. The human mind, creative and genius, pushes the limit of the imagination and blurs the line between reality and wishful thinking. Be honest, many times our obsession with size, position, unusual places to do it, and who to do it with, all stem from our imagination. Have you ever created vivid imagery in your mind of how a situation or action will play out? The details, colors, circumstances and sounds dance around your imagination in kaleidoscopic cinematography. Then comes the disappointment. It usually isn’t bad, sometimes it’s even great, but many times it never ends up exactly as you envisioned it. So trying different positions follows the same train of thought. It’s either not as wonderful as you thought or you realize that doing it upside down, swinging from a harness while playing Beathovens 5th symphony on your violin, while simultaneously drinking a glass of Merlot just isn’t possible. But it is certainly a lot of fun trying it.
So, do it how ever you want. Be safe. And of course, have lots of fun. Be playful about it. Sex, and life in general, is meant to be a joyous ride. And it’s so much fun when you ride it real good.
So, what’s your favorite position? What weird positions have you tried out lately. We’d like to hear from you. Send us a note in the comment box below.