How to Use a Dildo – A Step-by-step guide for Beginners

If you’re a guy (whether gay or straight) and you’ve never used a dildo before or are considering getting a dildo and don’t know how it works, then you’re in the right place. We’ve put together 5 tips on how to use a dildo effectively. These tips are especially relevant for larger dildos.

 

In five simple steps, we are going to show you how to use a dildo and you’d be on your way to exploring the full length and breadth of dildo land.

 

 

Step 1 – Prepare yourself.

 

The first step in how to use a dildo is to prepare yourself. By preparation we mean clean up your nether region before you get started. An anal douche is the best recommendation for cleaning down there. This is best done some time after you’ve had a normal bowel movement. To use a douche when your bowels are full could be a bit messy and time consuming. Once you’ve had a normal movement you’re ready to start.

 

Fill your douche bottle with clean, warm water and gently insert the tip into your rectum. You can get down on all fours or lie flat on your stomach with one leg pulled up towards the side to do this. The instructions on the enema package is usually self-explanatory. Once enough liquid is inside wait for a couple minutes (still in the prone or side position). Once two or three minutes have passed or until you cannot keep the liquid in, gently release the contents into the toilet bowl. You can repeat again, until the contents being deposited in the toilet bowl is clear. Once finished, wash your douche bottle and nozzle with hot soapy water and go take a shower. You’re now ready for the next step.

 

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For a more sophisticated and thorough douche try the Clean Stream All In 1 Cleansing System. This works best with the Clean Stream Enema Shower Diverter Valve.

 

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Step 2 – Clean your Dildo

 

Even if you cleaned your dildo the last time you used it or it’s brand new, you should still give it a thorough wash in hot soapy water or use a sex toy cleaner. You don’t want any unwanted pathogens coming in contact with your sensitive inner regions. The colon is lined with a super absorptive, semi-permeable membrane. Germs can wreak havoc there. So be careful. Your sex toy is going to be delving into your deepest internal regions and a good clean toy leads to a good and happy boy. Ensure that you stay safe, hygienic and healthy for the best experience possible. Once your toy is clean then you’re ready for the next step.

 

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Step 3 – Lubricate, lubricate, lubricate!

Did we say lubricate? Well we meant LUBRICATE! You can never use too much lubrication. And the bigger the size of the dildo or the weirder the shape, the more lubrication is required. Also some textures and materials require more lube you’d know by the feel.

 

It is best to choose a lube that is thick and smooth, making it easy to use and comfortable too. A good quality, water-based lube is the best option. It’s smoother and easier to clean up afterwards. We generally prefer ID Glide but find what’s best for you. If you’re planning on using a fist dildo, we advise taking a look at Doc Johnson TitanMen Anal Fisting Cream, which is a silicone/water-based lubricant mixture. Thick and creamy, it takes the pain and hassle out of fisting in an instant.

 

The lubrication is not just to be applied to your toy. You should apply a generous amount on yourself as well. Or better yet, get your partner to do it for you. This could be a really intimate act of trust and make for lovely foreplay. Once you’re all lubed up then you can move on to the next step.

 

 

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Step 4 – Gentle, Gentle, Meek and Mild.

Dildos can be difficult to insert at first, especially those with extra length and girth like the Master Series Four Stage Rocket Dildo. Take it slowly and use positions that allow you to spread your body out. Try lying on your back with a pillow under your bottom, with your legs raised and spread. Alternatively, you may prefer to squat down over the dildo to have more control of the depth. Starting with a smaller dildo and working your way up to the larger size is the best approach we recommend. Try easing it in a little at first then wait so that your anal muscles can adjust, then push a little more in and wait. Keep doing this until it’s all the way in. You can also push in and pull back out small bits at a time, each time pushing a little more in until you feel comfortable.

 

Once you’re comfortable with the feeling of the dildo inside you then you are ready for the next ste

 

Step 5 – Ride it Cowboy!

Now that you’re comfortable taking the dildo all the way in and your body has adjusted to the feeling of the dildo. Once you’ve gotten past the widest part of the dildo, your body should be more relaxed which allows you to explore the sensations in your own time. Some people like to twist the dildo inside to catch all the internal erogenous zones; others prefer to thrust in and out. Experiment to find out what you prefer – just remember to go slow and steady to prevent any injuries!  And it’s always better when you do it together with your partner. But communication is key.  Let your partner know how you feel and guide him throughout the process.

 


Here are some Dildos to choose from:

 

Dildos for Beginners:

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Dildos for More Experienced Users:

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Have you ever used a sex toy?

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